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Sheila K Collins, Ph.D.'s avatar

Thank you for expressing your sacred mother’s tears in such an artfully truthful way. Mothers all over the world resonate with your words as we too have struggled with systems that ignore or rebuke us. I am encouraged and inspired by you and your daughter’s Good Friday/ Easter resurrection story.

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Cynthia Winton-Henry's avatar

I appreciate your wisdom and words of wisdom, knowing how far you've traveled as a sister and guide.

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Sybil MacBeth's avatar

Thank you, thank you. I love the image of a bare altared Inner Temple. In despair, I often go to my inner garbage truck, where I continually toss and turn the garbage. It never turns to compost, just leaves me inconsolable.

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Cynthia Winton-Henry's avatar

Love unending. Garbage and glory!

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Steve Hines's avatar

This is a powerful testimony, Cynthia, shared on a sobering, meaningful day. Thank you for your words and your sensitivity.

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Cynthia Winton-Henry's avatar

Thank you dear Steve.

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Jeffrey Davis's avatar

Poignant, powerful, poetic……tears came early this Good Friday morning……..thank you!

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Cynthia Winton-Henry's avatar

Sending love and joy as we share in the dance of suffering and love. Grateful for the ways art helps us metabolize, distract, and ease the way.

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anita bondi's avatar

this is one of the most beautiful things i have read recently -- and of course, since we cannot look away, i have read ALOT! thank you Cynthia...just simply, thank you. xo

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Cynthia Winton-Henry's avatar

hello dear anita and thank you.

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Steffany's avatar

This is so beautifully written, powerfully painful, and true. Thank you.

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Cynthia Winton-Henry's avatar

Thank you, Steffany. Many bows.

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Barbara Hanna's avatar

It is Easter Week now but we all carry our Good Fridays with us with as much peace as we can. Your Good Friday reflection reminds us that someone is suffering now. This past Good Friday was difficult for us as we found out that John has melanoma on his cheek. It is deep so surgery will take place in May and we will find out if it has spread to other parts of his body.

Let us all walk together.

Barbara Hanna

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Cynthia Winton-Henry's avatar

Barbara. "We all carry our Good Fridays with us.." So sorry to hear about John's health. You are both in my prayers for excellent treatment and outcome,

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Coke Tani's avatar

I love this with all of me, Cynthia. I've been thinking of Mother Mary, of my sister-in-law, and through this sacred Substack piece, you too.

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Cynthia Winton-Henry's avatar

Bowing.

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Mary Ellen Lewis's avatar

My eyes stung as I read these words from the Temple. Later that day as I sat at Good Friday services, and the strings played with the haughting tones of the oboe. I saw hundreds of mothers dancing, bearing witness to the loss of their children. Inconsolable mothers. Languishing parents. Seekers of answers. Warriors of patience and hope. Whisperers of love that is challenged again and again and again. Cynthia, thank you for your truth.

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Cynthia Winton-Henry's avatar

Dearest Mary Ellen- We dance in the dark, so often, the hearts warriors of patience and hope.

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Donna Mazzola's avatar

Cynthia thank you for expressing the inexpressible. The weight of the Pieta. The Temple of the Inconsolable Mother. In your words I find my sister-in-law, Susanne, whose son, Stephen, died by suicide…the effects of alcohol. Thank you for your holy Mother’s lament.

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Cynthia Winton-Henry's avatar

Oh Donna. No words. Love Can Only Lament.

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Emily  Katzenbach's avatar

What an incredibly luminous testimony to your surrender to this cross in your life… and to acknowledge for all mothers .. yes… the body and soul.

My crosses (I hope I can share here) in my family have been my extreme childhood abuse and years of illness. My children’s cross was to watch their mother suffering and dying… for years… they were suffering as well. And so, I told them…. Look away… look away… it’s not your role… you have all been stunning… go live your purposes. And when I’m able to get off these crosses, I will come join you.

So proud of Katie, Cynthia, and her work with addiction in male prisons. She’s incredible.. And so, proud of you… thank you for sharing your temple.

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Cynthia Winton-Henry's avatar

Thank you Emily.

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